The 5 S’s: What Every Woman Needs
To Find Success
Having made a career of counseling political figures, former Presidential Advisor Suzan Johnson Cook is now inspiring women to live the life of their dreams.
Today’s empowered woman is continually working to climb the ladder of success, whether that’s business success or success in some way in her personal life. Good intentions and the desire to achieve success are all great, until the realities of life take over. It’s daunting when obstacles are faced and you go from feeling empowered and on top of the world to deflated and down on your luck.
The women who see these challenges as only temporary moments are the ones who win. They know that if these tough moments are overcome, it will strengthen them and push them through to a higher level of success in all that they do.
There are tools available that every woman should focus on when building that career and dream life. I call this the “S” philosophy.
Every woman needs an inner circle of advisors and confidants for professional and personal growth. It’s a group of like-minded women you can confide in and speak openly to about whatever challenges and struggles you are facing. If it’s business, get with a group of other highly successful women who push you to be the best in your field. If it’s personal, things like trust, compassion and a shoulder to lean on are important qualities.
Every woman needs a sanctuary, a special place they go to rest, reflect and recharge. It can be a place in your home like your master bedroom. It can be the beach or the mountains. It’s whatever gives you refuge from the hustle and bustle of the world around you.
We spend a great deal of our lives trying to accumulate things, whether it’s that promotion, more friends or material objects. But oftentimes the best advice is that less is more. Give yourself permission to let go and shed the things in life that aren’t making a positive impact for you.
Savor The Moment
A lot of people are stuck in the past. Planning for the future is good, but often we lose sight of what’s really important: The present moment. Savor it. No matter what’s going on in your life right now, live more in the present.
While you wouldn’t necessarily expect a former presidential advisor to recommend acting silly, it’s necessary. Stress is a killer of our health, relationships, success and so much more. We all need that time to just let go, have fun and act silly.
There is so much waiting for every woman in this world. Whatever you want you can have. The key is knowing how to navigate the course and work through those small and temporary rough patches. The best way to do this is with an approach that is comprehensive and creates a balance in your life.
Suzan Johnson Cook (“Ambassador SuJay”) is a former advisor to President Bill Clinton, President Barack Obama and Secretary of State Hilary Clinton. She served as Ambassador at Large for International Religious Freedom from 2011-2013. She is a faith feminist, international influencer, entrepreneur and diplomat who is passionate about human rights and equality, especially for women.